{"id":1710,"date":"2025-07-26T11:58:08","date_gmt":"2025-07-26T11:58:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/?p=1710"},"modified":"2025-07-26T11:58:08","modified_gmt":"2025-07-26T11:58:08","slug":"bir-limon-degil-derdim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/2025\/07\/26\/bir-limon-degil-derdim\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u0130R L\u0130MON DE\u011e\u0130L DERD\u0130M"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nternet bize nap\u0131yor? Toplumun yozla\u015fmas\u0131na m\u0131 hizmet ediyor yoksa o yozla\u015fmaya engel olacak onlarla sava\u015fan bir g\u00fc\u00e7 m\u00fc? \u0130kili m\u00fccadele desek daha do\u011fru de\u011fil mi\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>Ger\u00e7ekten yeni bir d\u00fcnya olu\u015ftu.Benim gibi <strong>Y<\/strong> ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 insanlar\u0131 katman katman \u00fcst\u00fcne b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f oldu.Bu yeni d\u00fcnyay\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in k\u00fcresel sistemlerede,a\u011flara batt\u0131k\u00e7a da kollektif k\u00fclt\u00fcr yerine bireysel k\u00fclt\u00fcr \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Art\u0131k hepimiz bireysel olarak rahatlad\u0131ysak \u015fimdi bunun getirilerini ve g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclerini konu\u015fmak laz\u0131m.Bug\u00fcn g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclerinden psikolojik bir k\u0131sma de\u011finmek istiyorum.Ben bu bireysellikle mesela bir derdim olunca imece usul\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ya\u015fayam\u0131yorum,kimse yok,ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131nca hemen arkada\u015f ,kom\u015fu edinebiliyormuyuz mesela bir limon isteyebilece\u011fimiz bunlar g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayattan birde psikologlar varki her sorunda g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz ili\u015fkiyi bozun diyen hemen toksik kelimesini yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131ran\u2026B\u0131rakal\u0131m salal\u0131mda biz o al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f yanl\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015farken bizim b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00e7ocu\u011funda normali oldu yanl\u0131zl\u0131k.Ellerde tabletler,telefonlar hep hepimiz \u015fikayet\u00e7iyiz ya bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck grup yaln\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcyerek bide bonus bakal\u0131m ne gibi \u015feylerde \u00f6\u011freniyorlarm\u0131\u015f internetten<\/p>\n<p>*ya\u015flar\u0131na uygun olmayan her t\u00fcrl\u00fc i\u00e7eri\u011fe ula\u015fma<strong>( ebeveyn kontrol\u00fc yokken)<\/strong> bu i\u00e7erik akl\u0131n\u0131za gelen her\u015fey<\/p>\n<p>*ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k yap\u0131yor ya daha k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc anlatay\u0131m.5 ya\u015f alt\u0131 \u00e7ocuklarda hi\u00e7 olmamas\u0131 gereken ekran olduk\u00e7a hayat\u0131n\u0131zda \u00e7ocukta n\u00f6rolojik kaymalar m\u00fcmk\u00fcn \u00e7ocu\u011fun otizmli olmas\u0131na veya dil-konu\u015fma becerilerinin gerilemesine,sosyal ili\u015fki kurma kurma becerisinin zay\u0131flamas\u0131na sebep oluyor.<\/p>\n<p>*\u0130lkokul d\u00f6neminden sonra internet g\u00fcvenli\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenmemi\u015f \u00e7ocuk amaaan ne olacak bir kereden diyip chat ortam\u0131nda tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli ki\u015filere okulunu s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131n\u0131 evini a\u011fz\u0131ndan ka\u00e7\u0131rabiliyor sonra bu durumda neler olaca\u011f\u0131na dair senaryolar\u0131 hadi hep birlikte d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim.<\/p>\n<p>*Nefret gruplar\u0131 ve ter\u00f6r gruplar\u0131 var merak edenler ilk olarak akl\u0131ma gelen incelleri ara\u015ft\u0131rabilir mesela. \u0130ncel ne demek kime denir neye bedel olunan olu\u015fum<\/p>\n<p>Bu listeyi uzatabilirim tabi\u2026 en \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 olanlara de\u011finmek istedim.Devam\u0131 gelicek\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nternet bize nap\u0131yor? Toplumun yozla\u015fmas\u0131na m\u0131 hizmet ediyor yoksa o yozla\u015fmaya engel olacak onlarla sava\u015fan bir g\u00fc\u00e7 m\u00fc? \u0130kili m\u00fccadele desek daha do\u011fru de\u011fil mi\u2026. Ger\u00e7ekten yeni bir d\u00fcnya olu\u015ftu.Benim gibi Y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 insanlar\u0131 katman katman \u00fcst\u00fcne b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f oldu.Bu yeni d\u00fcnyay\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in k\u00fcresel sistemlerede,a\u011flara batt\u0131k\u00e7a da kollektif k\u00fclt\u00fcr yerine bireysel k\u00fclt\u00fcr \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Art\u0131k [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,14],"tags":[1839],"class_list":["post-1710","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-saglik","category-teknoloji","tag-digitalhaber"],"views":360,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1710","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1710"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1710\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1711,"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1710\/revisions\/1711"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1710"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1710"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/digitalmecra.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1710"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}